September 16, 2026
Most family photo sessions with me run about an hour, though there’s no strict clock. It might be shorter if your kids warm up quickly, or longer if we need a few minutes for a snack break, a feeding, or a shy toddler to settle in. I’d rather slow down and let real moments happen than rush to get the shots within a set amount of time.

You’re staring at your calendar trying to figure out if a photo session will fit before nap time and nobody has actually told you how long it takes. An hour? Two? Do you need to clear the whole morning?
Here’s something I hear constantly: my kids won’t “last” very long for photos. But a family session isn’t about lasting. We’re not holding a pose and smiling at the camera for sixty minutes straight. We’re playing, doing the things your family already enjoys doing together, and having room to take a breather if someone needs one. More time doesn’t mean more pressure. It usually means less.
This matters most for parents of young kids who are really asking about their child’s limits, not mine, for families who’ve had a rushed or exhausting session before and don’t want to repeat it, and for the planners who just want to know how to block off their day.


I typically quote 60 minutes for a family session, but there’s no clock running the show. It could stretch a little longer if a toddler needs time to warm up, if baby needs a feed or a diaper change, or if anyone just needs a break. It can also wrap up faster if your kids are on it and we capture everything we need without much fuss. I like to slow things down enough to let real personalities come through, but I’m not going to stay longer than we actually need either.
A couple of weeks after your session, you’ll look through your full gallery and choose how many images you want, 15, 30, or the complete gallery, which usually lands somewhere around 50 to 80 images total. There’s also a discount if you’d like to pair your full gallery with an album, so your photos live somewhere you’ll actually pull them out and look through, not just on a phone. My own family does this, and my four-year-old asks to look through ours constantly.
Here’s the thing most parents get backwards: they assume they need less time than they actually do. They worry that their kids “won’t make it” through a full session. But since we’re playing, not posing, extra time just means room to breathe if someone needs a snack or a minute away, not more pressure to perform.

When I first get to your house, we take a few minutes to just talk, both with you and with the kids. I’ll often ask if I can look around, and kids usually love showing off their rooms. This is really where I’m getting everyone, especially the kids, on my side and excited that I’m there. I’ll put on some music your family likes from a bluetooth speaker, and then we usually start with the classic everyone-looking-at-the-camera shot to get it out of the way early.
From there, we play, and I guide you through a few fun poses that photograph beautifully along the way. We’ll wrap up with whatever activity we talked about ahead of time, whether that’s playing outside on the swingset, a pizza party on the living room floor, or baking cookies at the kitchen table. Individual and sibling moments happen naturally throughout, not as a separate timed block.
The whole time, I’m quietly watching for things you might not even notice I’m watching for: the look between you and your partner, the joke between siblings, the little connection you mentioned in your questionnaire that matters to your family. That’s really my job the whole session, catching what’s actually true, not just what’s posed.

The honest variables are family size (a family session with one child will usually go a little faster than a family with four), kids’ ages, and how much warm-up time your family needs that day. There’s no single part of a session that always takes the longest. Sometimes it’s just how long it takes kids to settle in, and that’s completely normal.
Here’s an opinion that might surprise you: “mini” or “petite” 20-30 minute sessions are often marketed as the perfect fit for families because they’re short and simple. I actually believed that myself when I first started. But what I noticed was that the best shots were consistently happening right at the very end of those short sessions, exactly when it was time to pack up and go. Everyone was finally warmed up and relaxed, and then we were done. That’s exactly why I don’t put a time limit on sessions anymore. The good stuff needs room to actually happen.

The light in your home sets a real outer limit on how long any session can run, no matter how much fun everyone’s having. That’s part of why I typically schedule sessions around 10am, when the morning light tends to be at its best. (For more on the best indoor lighting check out this blog post, which I honestly found fascinating.) A session booked earlier in the day generally has more room to stretch if your family needs it, while one booked closer to when the light goes overhead and starts fading has less flexibility. I’ll have a full post on choosing the best session time soon with more detail on this.

Little kids stay genuinely engaged for exactly as long as they stay engaged, and that’s different every session. The good news is that a looser session usually produces better photos with this age group than a forced one. We’re playing, not posing, and because we’re in your own home, if a toddler needs to run off and do their own thing for a minute, that’s completely fine. More often than not, they circle back on their own because they don’t want to be left out. If they don’t, we’ll just go play whatever they’re playing instead, and those shots end up being just as sweet.
I had a session once with a big sister, around two years old, who wanted absolutely nothing to do with me. She cried every time she looked my way. So we let her do her own thing while mom, dad, and I played with her baby sister instead. Slowly, over the course of the session, she started showing me her toys, clearly not wanting to be left out of all the fun happening with her sister. The images from the very end of that gallery were some of the most precious of the whole session, and that family ended up ordering an album to go with it. Mom even messaged me after looking through her gallery and said, “You can’t even tell sissy was fussy almost the entire time!”

In the hour before I arrive, I ask families to eat breakfast, get everyone’s belly full, and let the kids play and burn off a little energy beforehand. Prep the kids and tell them what we’ll be doing that morning. Tell them how fun it will be. If you seem on edge, nervous, or stressed, often times that energy will pass on to the kids as well. So let the kids be kids! Don’t stress about making your house look perfect. A light straightening of the rooms we’ve already talked through on our planning call is genuinely enough. You can even wait until right before I get there to get the kids dressed.
One thing I’ve learned from families over the years: turn the screens off before I arrive, if you can. If kids are mid-show or mid-tablet when I show up and suddenly have to stop, that transition alone can spark a meltdown and set an unfairly negative tone before we’ve even started.

Yes, sometimes. There’s nothing wrong with a shorter session. If we finish early, that’s genuinely fine. I won’t stay longer than we need to just to fill time, and this happens more often than you’d think, especially with older kids. A shorter session doesn’t mean less value. It just means we got what we needed a little faster than expected.

Plan for about an hour, but hold that number loosely. The real point isn’t hitting a specific length, it’s giving your family enough room for real moments to happen naturally, whether that takes forty minutes or ninety.
I used to sell short, quick sessions as the ideal option for busy families, back before I realized the best moments were happening right as those sessions were ending. These days, I’d rather give your family the room it actually needs than rush toward a number on a clock.
What’s your biggest scheduling worry? Drop a comment below and I’ll happily weigh in. And if you’re ready to plan your own family session, take a look at my family sessions page for more on what to expect
Yes, having the kids dressed and everyone ready by our scheduled start time helps the most. I arrive right on time, not early, so you’re never rushed on my account.
A few extra minutes is no problem at all. But if we end up waiting 20 to 30 minutes, it starts eating into our best light and our time for photos.
Extended and multi-generation family sessions typically run closer to 90 minutes, driven mostly by how many family units are involved and how many groupings everyone wants captured.
Not necessarily. Moving from inside to your yard, for example, doesn’t need to add real time if it’s part of your family’s actual story, and I don’t worry about the transition. I do recommend it if that outdoor space is somewhere your family spends real time.
You’ll typically have your full gallery within about 3 weeks. During that window, I’m editing your images so they’re ready for you to choose your favorites and order any products.
No, weather doesn’t extend the session, it just might change the plan. If rain or clouds are expected, I’ll reach out ahead of time to reschedule (good light makes a huge difference, even for in-home photos!)

Michelle Bordenkircher is an in-home newborn, maternity, & family photographer serving Louisville, KY & surrounding areas